All Aboard the Control Train

control

Human beings like control. Why? When we feel out of control, we experience a powerful and uncomfortable sense of anxiety due to the ambiguity of the future. For instance, we might ponder the questions: what is going to happen to me or what does my future hold? It makes sense from a primitive standpoint- we…

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The One Word Resolution

resolution

Here we go with that time of the year again-  The New Year. This is the time of the year where many of us chose to make hefty New Year’s resolutions. Having goals is a great way to make positive change in your life. The problem with the notorious New Year’s Resolution is that statistics…

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How to Meditate Without Practicing Meditation

How to Meditate Without Practicing Meditation

The traditional form of mediation emphasizes breathing and intentionally focusing the mind on a particular object or thought. The goal of meditation is to achieve a mentally clear and emotionally calm state. While this sounds nice, the reality of the matter is we live in a face paced world. There is not always time to…

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The Catch to Happiness

Happiness

We live in a society where happiness seems to be the goal for everyone.  One may occasionally think: How can I be happier? Let us start by considering what happiness means. While the details of the state most likely look different for each person, generally speaking, it entails a positive mood and a state of…

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The Gift of Being Imperfect

Marilyn Monroe was once quoted saying, “Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it’s better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.” Throughout my career, I have worked with many individuals who embrace perfectionism. In fact, they hold on to it so tightly that it is wrapped around their identity and self-worth. This is where…

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