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the golden ratio

The Golden Ratio

August 6, 2018
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The Golden Ratio.  And we’re not talking about peanut butter and jelly.  Positive to negative interactions.  Every interaction, every statement, every tone makes an enormous impact on your child. 6:1. 6 positive interactions to every 1 negative interaction. It seems…

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Technology and Mental Health

Can Technology Use Impact Mental Health?

July 23, 2018
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People often ask me my opinion about how much technology children and teens should have access to, so I decided to write a post about it.  According to an article I just read (see link below), the risk for an…

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Your Child's Behavior

What is Behind Your Child’s Behavior Anyway?!?!

June 21, 2018
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All Behavior is Communication Whether you are a parent of a younger child or teen, their behavior is communicating something to you!  You see a child across the room, crossing their ankles, wiggling, and you know just by seeing how…

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Parenting in RELATION to Your Child 

June 11, 2018
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Being a parent goes beyond all preconceived expectations.  And it is far more than just “parenting”.  It is a relationship.  When we are able to look at this as a two sided relationship, it takes off a little pressure.   The…

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Measuring Behavior: Intensity, Duration, Consistency

May 14, 2018

When life is hard, we want change now. However, change does not happen overnight.  When moving through change, one of the most difficult aspects is how to measure progress. It is important to measure progress to help us stay motivated,…

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Understanding Your Child’s Brain

April 12, 2018

As parents, you have natural instincts. Instincts about what your child’s brain needs without even realizing it.   90% of the brain develops by the age of 4. Significant events that happen during that time can really have an impact…

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The Difference Between a 504 and IEP

March 15, 2018
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When you have a child who needs extra support in school, it can feel extremely overwhelming!  You need to understand your child’s needs and you also have to understand how to get them the support they require.  When your child…

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Learning Together: Appropriate Responses to BIG Emotions

March 5, 2018
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Understanding and identifying emotions is difficult for adults, let alone for children.  Children often learn from their environments how to identify, deal with, and handle emotions.  Often if children don’t know how to handle an emotion, they will react to…

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avoiding power struggles

Learn to Fight Healthily with “I Statements”

February 5, 2018
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Through my formal education I was taught best ways to communicate.  The most effective ways to communicate are actually pretty much the same for parents and children, married couples, and children with other children. It is kind of funny, because…

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Play Therapy: What it is and Who it helps

January 24, 2018

We often associate difficult emotions with adulthood and talk therapy.  Like adults, children also struggle with difficult emotions; however, they don’t have the language we have as adults.  But what happens when you don’t have the words or experiences to understand…

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reward system

5 Foundations for an Effective Reward System

December 7, 2017

Utilizing a reward system is one of the most effective ways to see a positive change in your child’s behavior.  Working toward and rewarding the positive behavior makes the behavior a habit, and in turn allows it to happen more…

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The Importance of Gratitude

November 13, 2017
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I have written about gratitude before, but with Thanksgiving coming up next week I couldn’t resist revisiting the topic.  As a psychologist, I am consistently grateful and honored to be a part of the my client’s journey.  It is a…

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3 Important Factors in Picking a Therapist

October 30, 2017
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Finding a therapist can be daunting and overwhelming. Filtering through information on agencies and service providers can be confusing and discouraging. With that said, finding a good personality fit is extremely important. Here are some simple guidelines to navigate you through…

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